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The following information is from Victim to Survivor: A Handbook for Battered Women, by Leslie Cantrell.
Domestic violence is not an isolated event, but a pattern of behaviors used by a partner in a present or past relationship. There are many types of abuse that may be used against a partner including emotional, verbal, physical and/or sexual abuse. Children are also impacted by this violence and may suffer for many years as a result. While there are conflicts in every relationship, no one deserves or asks to be abused. Sexual assault can happen to women and men of every age, shape, race and social class. After the initial trauma of sexual assault, a person may experience feelings of fear, guilt, embarrassment and helplessness. Counseling can support the person through these feelings and ease their return to daily life. Being physically or emotionally abused by a spouse/partner is a frightening and lonely experience. You may feel that you are the only person that this is happening to. In reality, millions of women in the United States experience battering every year. Statistics indicate that a woman is battered every 18 seconds and one in every two women will be the victim of a violent encounter with her mate at some point in her life. Knowing that you are not the only one experiencing battering in an intimate relationship can help to free you from the shame and embarrassment you may be feeling and help you understand that the abuse does not occur because you are doing something "wrong" or that you do something to cause it to happen.
If you are a victim of abuse or have witnessed abuse, the toll-free hotline to report any type of abuse or neglect maintained by the Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services is
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